We get it. You’re into this girl and special occasions are perpetually right around the corner. There’s her birthday, your anniversary, and Christmas, to name a few. So, it’s easy to run out of gift ideas for her.
Of course, we recommend that you buy her lingerie. If you have been a couple long enough, we’re sure the thought has crossed your mind once or twice.
We can understand, too, that stepping into a brick-and-mortar lingerie shop can be intimidating. You don’t want to look like the pervert hovering around the thongs section in a Victoria’s Secret shop.
How to Buy Her Lingerie
For a man, buying lingerie might seem intimidating, but it’s not at all a difficult task. And seeing the woman you love in the little number you bought for her is always rewarding.
Researchers say that 90 percent of men rate sex as their top choice for a Valentine’s Day gift. (That shouldn’t surprise you.)
You don’t have to walk into a brick-and-mortar store to shop for lingerie, either. Buying online is easier, more discreet, and more convenient.
We at My Secret Drawer® are always ready to help. That’s what we’re all about. Below is our six-step no-nonsense guide for buying your woman lingerie she will enjoy wearing.
1. Be confident.
You have no reason to be embarrassed. Men have been giving women sexy underwear ever since underwear was invented. While research says seeing a woman in lingerie turns men on, most girls like it, too.
What might surprise you is that many women like lingerie for precisely the same reasons. Keep this in mind and remember that you want your girl to feel sexy in what you’re buying her.
The gesture of buying her sexy lingerie won’t look creepy if the point is to have fun, after all. It’s also a great way to keep the excitement and attraction alive.
2. Know her lingerie preferences.
If you’re not sure how risqué to go, it’s best to err on the side of being conservative. This is especially true for your first few purchases. There’s nothing wrong with buying her something that you think is a bit outside of her comfort zone. But don’t push her so far as to make her uncomfortable. You want this to be a fun experience for her.
There are many types of lingerie out there. Your best bet is to look to your partner’s purchases for hints. If she likes to wear shorts to bed, she is unlikely to respond well to a crotch-less teddy. If she’s into sexy corsets and lacy bra tops and garter belts, then you have a wider array of options.
3. Avoid her insecurities.
Here’s where things can get complicated. She might feel extremely self-conscious about the body parts that you happen to love most. Women who love women almost always understand this instinctively. Sadly, we cannot say the same for men who love women.
If she truly despises a part of her body, she won’t enjoy calling attention to it. Your purchase might work against you by making her feel pressured. So, stay clear of her insecurities. There are other ways to help her in that department.
4. Know her size.
Do your homework and be prepared. Before you do any shopping, take a quick peek into your partner’s underwear drawer while she isn’t looking. Write down her bra and panty size. If you don’t have time to write it all down, just take a picture of the label.
Check the sizes on a few of her lingerie items. Sizes can differ slightly across brands and styles, but you can use our size chart as a reference.
Don’t forget color options, either. If you are unsure about the color, go for black. Black is a classic and is always good when buying lingerie for your wife or girlfriend.
5. Make the purchase.
My Secret Drawer® offers stylish, well-made lingerie sets for women. You get what you pay for in high-end lingerie. We even offer generous discounts for customers who subscribe to our exclusive membership program.
When you buy lingerie as a gift, we recommend that you choose matching sets of knickers and bras. We have a wide selection of in our online store. Check it out. If you still feel lost, it’s best to do some additional research.
Once you’ve chosen the set you like, everything else should be easy. You can complete the look with accessories such as stockings, sexy suspenders, and garters.
6. Present the gift.
Timing is essential for lingerie gifts. Surprising her with lingerie can bring a much-needed shake-up to your sex lives. Conversely, it can be a little too tacky for Valentine’s Day, unless you can manage it like a real ladies’ man.
The final touch is also crucial. Choosing gift wrapping should be as important as choosing lingerie as a gift. If you don’t know how to wrap a gift, get an elegant gift box. That will work just as well.
On a more serious note, it’s best to avoid lingerie if your girlfriend has persistent body image issues. The same is true if she struggles with health problems that might make her feel uncomfortable in racy lingerie.
While you know your girlfriend best, we would also advise against giving her lingerie as an apology. (Let’s face it, lingerie can easily be a gift for yourself, too!) Make sure you present your gift when she’s in the right mood.
When it’s done right, giving your girlfriend or wife lingerie as a gift is a fun surprise for her. We hope you enjoy the whole experience, too.
