When all elements are considered, it is possible – and desirable – to have not just good sex, but great sex that completely delights and fulfils your partner. The quality of intercourse varies depending on mood, energy level, and location. And, despite the challenges, attempting to help acheive your partner’s orgasm or improve one’s performance in bed is a worthwhile and mutually rewarding goal.
The Role of Sexual Stimulation
Sexual stimulation is any stimulus, including sexual ideas, erotic exposure, and physical contact, that induces or amplifies sexual arousal and may result in orgasm.
Reading, watching, or listening to sensuous items, such as porn, can all make you feel aroused. Arousal can also occur when particularly sensitive areas of your body, referred to as “erogenous zones,” are touched. However, not everyone finds contact sexually arousing.
Understanding What Feels Best for Women
Women often simply lack the words to say what they want. This could be because of cultural or religious restraints or simply a natural reticence or shyness, Or perhaps they simply lack the experience to recommend alternative positions or activities that may be orgasmic.
In a 2014 study, the University of Indiana, in collaboration with the OMGYES Research Group/For Goodness Sake surveyed thousands of American women about vaginal penetration. The participants were asked what made vaginal penetration more enjoyable for them. A recurring pattern of four separate techniques, never completely defined, are unveiled and named, and are reported to truly induce orgasms in women.
Angling
Rotating, elevating, or lowering the pelvis and hips during penetration, to change where the toy or penis rubs inside the vagina. A total of 87% of the respondents say they get enough stimulation.
Pairing
A woman or her partner stimulates her clitoris with a finger or sex toy while being penetrated. 69% of the respondents like this technique.
Rocking
During penetration, the base of a penis or sex toy continually rubs against the clitoris by staying all the way inside the vagina rather than thrusting in and out. When the woman is on top, she must ‘unlearn’ the fast-pumping actions seen in porn. This new technique has given partners a great deal of happiness. This strategy is liked by 76% of the ladies.
Shallowing
A penetrating touch just inside the vaginal opening. According to one respondent, the area is totally underestimated. She claims she can have exceptional sex with penetration that only goes in an inch and never goes any deeper. This strategy is desired by 84% of females.
More Stimulations, Please!
Use your mouth now. Alternatively, use your hands or your torso. You can even put your feet to work if that is what motivates your partner. The point we’re trying to make is that it’s critical to broaden one’s sexual experience. Penetrative sex – by itself – is not widely known for bringing sexual pleasure to all partners.
Oral Foreplay
Women frequently require a variety of sexual sensations, such as oral sex, to orgasm. Don’t be frightened to try new things.
Don’t rush through the experience. While you’re down on your partner, pay attention to other regions of her body. While you’re warming her up, tease her. Rather than focusing on the clitoris and going to town, make the entire area wet. Be firmer after some build-up, gradually increasing speed and paying attention to signals of overstimulation or if she wants more.
Sex Stimulating Toys
When you’ve decided what you want, sex toys can help you get there alone or with a partner. Tatyana Dyachenko, a sex coach with the online sex business Peaches and Screams, explains which toys are appropriate for the four new techniques named.
For Angling
To maximize pleasure, angled sex swings let the woman rotate, lift, or descend her pelvis on the penetration item.
For Pairing
A silicone small finger vibrator stimulates the clitoris during penetration; a strap-on face dildo allows you to penetrate while also stimulating the clitoris with your tongue.
For Rocking
A raised ribbed “cock” sleeve with a clitoral stimulator and vibrator is beneficial to both parties: it thickens and supports the penis for firmer erections, and the female partner can rub herself against the clitoral stimulation while being entered. A vibrating clitoral stimulator, on the other hand, provides direct stimulation.
For Shallowing
Vibrating balls or eggs are implanted just inside the vagina to shallow it without the necessity for deep penetration.
Best Sex Encounter of Your Life!
The most important thing to remember is that great sex involves both physical and emotional techniques. Take on orgasms but do not forget the other elements. Do not completely rely on penetration.
Practice your “signature move” while experimenting with different sex positions. Remember to laugh, share, as well as to be supportive emotionally.
Do you have a favourite position that is pretty much guaranteed to bring you to orgasm?
